
It’s Just My Opinion, But I’m Not Wrong.
I’m just sharing my viewpoint on a few things going on in the world and my life. Share your thoughts...even if they don't agree with mine. Dialogue is a great thing...opposing views breed inflection leading to someone gaining knowledge. We all have an opinion; the fact that they're not all the same makes life great. Share yours…I’m sharing mine.
Is this really who we've become? Have we reverted back to being minstrels for 'the man'?
Furthermore, for this party to make fun of the grassroots, feet on the pavement warriors who go out every day and get things done, means they are not only making fun of those organizations I listed earlier, but let me introduce you to some others they are ridiculing.
When the republicans made fun of community leaders they further separated themselves from ‘real people’ with ‘real issues’. They fail to realize the importance of the inspiration these people bring to people in every community. They insulted the support base for one major community organizer in doing so as well.
What they fail to realize is the fact that this country was founded by community organizers like Ben Franklin, George Washington, and Thomas Jefferson. Men who realized that the country should be run by citizens who ‘temporarily’ become lawmakers (hence George Washington’s short time as president), not by lifetime career politicians like McCain. People who make laws that benefit the country as a whole including the common man because they are the common man, not someone who has received a government check for over 30 years and has never had a regular job. They forget that the American way was forged by citizens who stepped out on faith and went against the status quo; people who set trends and forged paths; people who were relentless in their pursuit of justice, equality, and freedom. American was built on the backs of people who did what they did for a better America, not because they were paid to do it; but because those who were wouldn’t do it. This country was set firm due to the actions of a community activist who said, “If you hear the dogs…keep going. If you see thee torches…keep going; if they shout after you…keep going; don’t ever stop…keep going. If you want to taste freedom, you have to keep going." [Harriet Tubman]
I advised a friend that I still had not made up my mind who I’d vote for as we spoke last week. I said I was going to wait until after Barack’s speech at the close of the DNC and McCain’s at the close of the RNC so I could weigh the two evenly. Unfortunately, I lied. I made up my mind after hearing Palin’s speech and witnessing the fervor surrounding it. I fell asleep on McCain’s speech last night so what he did or did not say really played no role in my decision NOT to vote for him. You see, being one who has worked as a ‘community organizer’ and in several capacities, I still do, I desire to support a ticket that respects those in the community that actually do the work whether the camera is there or not. Those who not only do it for free, but those who make a difference and are under compensated for their efforts like the police, fire, teachers, and military men and women of this country.
I read somewhere that “…it's never really about the organizer; it's about the community...” and what more is America, than one huge community?
I’ve made my decision and will stick with it. You MUST make your own and get out and vote on November 4…I don’t care which you chose all I ask is that you choose wisely and choose whomever makes best sense for you AND America.
It’s just my opinion, but I’m not wrong!
As I sat and watched the DNC over the past couple of nights this week I was left with a few questions and brought about the confirmation of a feeling that I’d had for some time. To some this Democratic convention exudes with a vibe that was weird and jittery, this was in a stark contrast to the early rousing, cult-like feel of the Obama uprising.
You could cut the tension with a knife. There were some who tried to act as though they didn’t have it, there were others who were overt in their feelings. I’ll call it “secreted hate.”
Even with the attempts of the main stream media to mask the division, there was a large contingent of acrid Clinton associates, fund-raisers and factions wandering the halls, spewing malice, complaining of slights, calculating their actions for Hillary’s roll call and scheming trouble, with some in the Clinton camp disrespecting Obama by planning their untimely exodus, even prior to the nominee speaking.
Then you hear Hillary make the statement “Remember, 18 million people voted for me, 18 million people, give or take, voted for Barack.” While she gave herself credit for 18 million, it was ‘give or take’ for Barack. This was her poorly veiled attempt at making an anti-Obama point. Every time something contrary to the party takes place, she acts like her delegates aren’t controlled by her. I personally believe that she privately encourages and directs her minions to keep her dream alive, even at the expense of Obama and the democratic party.
She couldn’t even lie convincingly about the campaign’s vice presidential selection, Biden, she stated that he added “intensity.” Is that kind of like telling someone with an ugly baby that the outfit they’re wearing is cute? Or possibly describing a fat, or ugly, chick as having a good personality?
Then, to add to that, she came out last night wearing a very intensely orange pantsuit…hmmm I wonder if that was a hint that she’d like to have been his campaign partner? To add to that, she expressed gratitude for her “sisterhood of the traveling pantsuits,” as she said she couldn’t wait until Barack signed her health plan into law.
Then she followed that by dropping a quick jab at McCain with the statement, “It makes perfect sense that George Bush and John McCain will be together in the Twin Cities because these days they are awfully hard to tell apart,” That even sounded insincere when she prefaced it with the statement that he’s her colleague and friend.
To add to all of this abhorrent activity, they decided (CNN did) to interview one of her passionate supporters who was fighting back tears and telling us that those who voted for Obama should realize that they chose the wrong person. As she was interviewed, she went on to say that Hillary’s speech proved that she’d make a much better president than Barack Obama. She went on to add that he has “two months” to prove himself. This after stating that he’s not qualified to be president because he had no experience. She asked the question …would you allow someone to be CEO of your company with no experience? All he has is a Harvard education…nothing else.
There are those who are still very angry at Obama, not because they don’t think he’s qualified, but because they feel as though he stole their dream of seeing a woman president before they die. This is epitomized in a 74-year-old lady from Washington state who spent time volunteering for the Clinton campaign. She’s adopted a uniform of a Hillary T-shirt and hat signed by Clinton accented with a “Nobama” button. She has been known to stand in the back of rallies and booing every time his name is mentioned.
People like her are in one of two categories, voting for McCain, or not voting at all and most don’t have anything at all positive to say about Obama. Most are so passionate in their disdain that they can’t even articulate to you why they can’t stand the man…or his wife. It’s amazingly peculiar…and quite juvenile.
Some are discussing the fact that Bill is still pretty pissed about being painted a racist during the campaign for the several gaffes he was credited for. While some compared Barack to a young Bill, Bill was having problems putting together the right words to praise his campaign when he speaks to the convention on Wednesday night. Even after being offended by the Obama campaign wanting control over his speech. This isn’t too far off the mark for the presumprive nominee, but to Bill, it was just another slap in the face. They normally did this in order to control what’s said and to lessen the likelihood of the other party getting something more to use against the party’s nominee. In this case, they didn’t want him spending his speech time defending himself against the accusations that were made against him during the primaries.
After discussions, the Obama camp relented and said that the ex-president could say whatever he wanted to. Then again, when doesn’t Bill do that? This didn’t bode well with Obama supporters, who thought it made him look weak in the face of controversy.
There were some who even had issue with the casual appearance that Obama had while sitting in the homes of some supporters during Michelle’s speech. While others had issue with the fact that no one was making speeches centered on gas prices and against McCain’s campaign. I’m of the mindset that Obama has some platform stances that are counter to my personal beliefs, as does McCain, for this reason, I am still in the process of deciding who I’ll vote for. It’s very difficult at this point, I have to make sure I read, study, and learn as much as I can about the two nominees so that I can make the proper choice in November.
I encourage you, who are reading this, to make sure you are voting for the person who most closely meets your needs. No one candidate will meet all of your needs and line up with all of your beliefs, so you have to have certain key issues that are deal breakers. I’ve said before, that we ought to review their platforms and prioritize them in the following order (1) according to your Christian beliefs (2) according to your American beliefs (3) according to your ethnic needs. The rest of the week will be interesting, to say the least and next week shall be as well. Both conventions are a gross waste of money and resources that could serve mankind in a much better way. I don’t care which party you align yourself with; they are both wasteful and insincere. I beseech each of you to evaluate each candidate on their own merits and make your decision according to who they are and how they stand on your values. DO NOT vote the straight party ticket!! That’s why we are in the situation we are in today with everyone playing ‘party politics.”
It’s Just My Opinion, But I’m Not Wrong.
Everyone heard of the CNN special that aired last week that highlighted being black in America. Hopefully some of us took the time to view it and gained some insight as well as conviction. I've had a couple of offline conversations with colleagues in this regard. Some more in-depth than others, but this morning I received a scathing analysis of the series that I really can't disagree too much with. Therefore I thought I'd share it here.
A graduating senior from Spelman wrote this blog on her facebook and sent it to CNN. She makes some great points and asks some poignant questions of the news magnate. Some of the questions we may have asked ourselves while watching or discussing with our contemporaries.
Take the time to read her comments and contemplate on what we can do to promote a better image of who we are as a people. Our image was less than stellar, while not disastrous. If you haven't watched it...make the time to do so. When you do...bear this sister's viewpoints in mind when you do. In all...be blessed.
Here are her comments as I received them:
April wrote this on her facebook blog and sent me a copy. She was pretty disappointed in the content and depth of the CNN special. I thought I'd pass it on for your thoughts (older folks).
Take care,
Casey
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CNN BLACK AMERICA
Certainly Not Mine....By A.E. Curry
While these questions capture the essence of the misdirected nonsense that was "Black in America: The Series" , there was one topic that pushed me over the edge:
"Why are so many black women still single?"
While this IS a discussion that is held among black women, and has been featured in Essence, Ebony and other magazines that cater specifically to the black female population, CNN failed (whether accidentally or intentionally) to mention a few pertinent details...
...I logged on to CNN's website looking for news.
Quite a sensational title for one of the nation's leading news networks. Instantly, I felt my blood boil as I thought of my parents, who recently celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary, and my grandparents who will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary in August. My first instinct was to scream "NO… what kind of stupid question is that??"But then I remembered that I was sitting in my cubicle, on the fourth floor of the
I found that once you click on the link, the title has a little more to it. Now it read:"Black and Single: Is Marriage Only for White People"The article paints a vivid picture of a successful black woman who had "Prince Charming" dreams that were crushed when she was hit with the ALLEGED reality: Black women don't get married.According to statistics they, excuse me, WE are about half as likely as white women to marry.There are quite a few things to address here.........
First of all, again...CNN failed to quote the ENTIRE statistic. The statistic should read:"45% of black women between the ages of 18-30 have never been married compared to only 23% of white women.""Between the ages of 18-30"
hmm.........what an important part of the statistic to leave out.When I was 18, I was finishing up my freshman year at the nation's top liberal arts college for African American women, my beloved Spelman.Marriage was far from my mind.
Now, a graduating senior at age 21, my plans include a JD/PhD in Psychology and opening up my own practice, and perhaps a few years of working for the company I interned with during my college days.
Let’s see.......so after a 4 year JD/PhD program + 3-4 years of working at
At 29, according to CNN and Soledad, I will be in danger of becoming a spinster for the rest of my life.
What they failed to mention is that women, not just black women who have been painted by society to be successful, loveless powerhouses, are marrying later. For women, their goals have shifted greatly in the past few decades because of new opportunities, new interests and the changing family dynamic.
Bennett College's President said that there were three main factors that explain why black women are not getting married:
She said that there is a growing education gap between black women and black men, which places black women as more successful than their male counterparts. This, she says, makes it difficult for them to find a mate they can relate to since education and socio-economic status are linked, she says that educated black women are more affluent than the black men in their dating pool, which renders them economically unequal.
Furthermore, she says that there more black men in jail than are in college thus creating a "shortage", so to speak.
Why is CNN taking the reality of a handful of African American women, including the writer of Something New, the movie that tells the story of a black woman crosses to what some call the "other side" to find love, and calling it an epidemic that is plaguing the black community??
Because of my career aspirations, why have I become a statistic?
Where did they get their data?
Did circus monkeys conduct the research?
Perhaps it is an issue worth mentioning, but to even suggest that marriage is only for white people is crass, tactless and in bad taste. Not to mention it is completely untrue and it perpetuates the myth that black women are lonely, overworked, over achievers who are unlovable and high maintenance.
What about the happily (or unhappily lol) married black couples?
What about those engaged?Or those who are just shacking up? (since the latter has recently become a cultural norm and is considered a form of pseudo-commitment)
While I think its GREAT that CNN is suddenly interested in the black American, from the articles that are in rotation now such as:
There are at least 25 of 40 new articles posted that pertain to black people and issues that "relate" to us. Glad our experiences are so popular these days.
The series and the articles share a common theme. They scrape the surface for those issues that we consider common knowledge that have existed in our literature and studies for decades. [Patricia Hill Collins. Ellis Cose. bell hooks. Lawrence Otis Graham. Akiba Solomon. Michael Eric Dyson. Dr. Beverly Daniel Tatum. William C Rhoden. Jill Nelson.]
Our relationship status', hair texture, racial injustices and D.W.B.(the infamous driving while black)?? These are not the sum total of our existence.
Being black is so much more than absent baby daddies, AIDS, incarceration and broken relationships.
From the "Black in America" series, if I were to watch having no knowledge whatsoever of African Americanism, sadly, that is precisely what I would think...
This program's aim, which may have been to challenge negative stereotypes about African Americans only, simply highlighted the lives of African Americans who (usually at no fault of their own) embody the stereotype.
So the subtitle of the article on black women and marriage read "Single, Black and Female: Is Marriage a part of their Reality?"My response is a resounding yes.
It is my reality.
It was my mothers reality even though she was born, raised and college educated in Washington, D.C. where in her days statistics that that only 1 in 10 black women will be married before 30 and after 30 they have a better chance of getting hit by a bus.
It was my grandmothers reality even though she was born, raised and college educated in the south in an era when black men were under attack and many were hung from trees before their 25th birthday.
It was my great grandmothers reality, it is the reality of my godmother, many of my aunts, cousins, mentors, friends and while I may not represent the majority, my experience is certainly worth highlighting in a series that claims to talk about blacks in America.
Is my experience not a black experience?
So referring to the title of the series "Black in America: The Black Woman and Family & The Black Male",
I ask…Who's Black America?
Certainly, not mine.
"It's Just Her Opinion, but She 's Not Wrong!"
As many of you might have heard over the past couple of weeks, Jesse is back in the news again. For years I've referenced him as a camera whore and have been less than impressed with his antics and shenanigans over the past couple of decades. There are several facts that Jesse needs to come to grips with.
Jesse has fallen into the delusion that too many of our people have. They seek out injustice and racism wherever they can find it and often times wherever they can create it. His last little statement that was ‘accidentally’ caught on a hot mic was indicative if the REAL, do as I say, not as I do Jesse. It was also a screaming example of his idiocy. He was on FOX for crying out loud. Everyone knows that FOX News is a tool of the extreme right wing Conservatives. He should have known they’d try to do something to get him to make a fool of himself and, to them, black people. I, unfortunately, had to come to grips with the fact that when one black man does something stupid [like this] we are all painted with the same brush. I had to come to grips with the fact that when a black preacher [I still don’t ever recall hearing him preach] does something stupid [like this] all black preachers are put in the category with him. Don’t agree?? Look back over the years and focus on times and events that shaped this country and the lives of black Americans. Who do they ALWAYS go to as the voice of Black America? Hmmm…Jesse and his perm wearing cohort Al!!! I don’t know about you, but neither of them speak for me!!!
He started out by making statements about Obama not acting ‘black enough’ after the Carolina primaries, now this comes to light. I was taken aback by the ludicrosity of this crap. He’s been in TV stations and interviewed across this land for over 30 years and makes a mistake like this? Come on Jesse!!!! I believe it was intentionally done so that this little whore could get some more camera time. So that this little sissy could let everyone know tat he’s sulking in the corner with sour grapes because this ONE campaign eclipsed BOTH of his in one fell swoop. I think it was his way to get back a Barack for the speech he gave on father’s day about black men needing to stand up and be real men. Take care of and nurture the children they made. To Jesse that was like a kick in the stomach…stomping on his toes…kicking him in the shins. Oh yeah, most of America has forgotten about the staff member he knocked up and hid away. That was what 8 or 9 years ago wasn’t it?
When’s the last time Jesse decorated for a birthday party? Went to a parent teacher conference? Went to a piano recital? …soccer game? …read a bedtime story? You see, Obama has the credentials to make the statements he made because he’s doing the things he says others ought to. He lets his constituents and staffers know tat he needs to get home every once in a while to see and spend time with his kids. Not have his organization send a check over every month. Don’t get m wrong…Obama was kicking me in the shins and stomping on my toes as well. However, rather than getting mad at him for telling the truth, I looked internally at myself and what I can do to change the future and my position as a father. I challenge other men out there to do the same. If you’re not a good dad, do your best to be the best one. If you’re a good dad, try to be a great one. It’s your calling, your responsibility, your duty.
Jesse…get a job…do something constructive with the rest of your life!
…oh yeah, take Al with you!
And stop the bitchassness [ I never thought I'd use that word, but it's so fitting here] !!
It’s just my opinion, but I’m not wrong!!!
In the wake of the fervor over the statements of Rev Jeremiah Wright and how the snippets from his sermons have been causing issues in the presidential election, he granted an interview. As I watched the interview on PBS (Bill Moyer's talk show), I was enlightened and inspired. All I can say is thank you for what you said and for the gospel you preach. Please don't accept what the media tells you. They will do what they deem necessary to keep you as a viewing audience. They'll cut it up, edit it, and switch it to say whatever they desire it to say. I've posted about 10 minutes of this sermon particularly because it is the one that has caused the greatest amount of uproar in order that you might be able to put it all into context.
In order that you might be able to see that what he is being credited for saying was actually a quote that he actually attributed to the original author within the context of a sermon. It's amazing what we can receive, what we see, what we hear, that is in some ways distorted and in turn distorts our views on things. After hearing this sermon in context, I have no issue with it being proclaimed from a rooftop, pulpit, or a street corner. I have no qualms with the admission that I see things differently when presented with a new set of facts. I also don't have a problem saying that Wright may have made other remarks (riding dirty, etc.) that I don't agree with or think should have been said over the pulpit. What I am saying is, I challenge us all to read, investigate, and learn...that's what it's all about.
It's just my opinion, but I'm not wrong.
Why is it that a Black Man can create a tiny piece called a filament (electric light - Lewis Latimer) That allows people to see in the dark? But can't be seen fit to lead a country to the true light. Why is it that a Black Man can create an instrument (clock - Benjamin Banneker) that all People use to tell time? But people don't think it is time for him to run a country. Why is it that a Black Man can design a place for the high authorities to meet in & a place for the President to live in (The Capital & the White House Phillip Reid (a slave) & Pierre L'Enfant)? But not good enough to lead these meetings or live in himself. Why is it that a Black Man was brilliant enough to do the first open heart surgery (Dr. Daniel Hale Williams) And show the world how to get and preserve plasma (Dr. Charles Drew)? But not good enough to put a program in place where everyone can afford this surgery. Why is it that a Black Man was creative enough to design an instrument (traffic light - Garrett Morgan) To bring multiple people (traffic) to a halt? But not seen creative enough to design a plan to bring all this unnecessary and worthless Fighting between countries to an end. Why is it that a Black Man could create the soles (shoes - Jan Matzeliger) that people Walk on everyday? But not seen good enough to fill the shoes of a bad president. Why is it that a Black Man was smart enough & brave enough to teach himself (Fredrick Douglas & Thomas Fuller - both slaves) and others how to read, write and/or calculate math? But not seen (as) smart enough and bold enough to calculate a platform to be President to a country that sure needs another first by us. So you see my Brothers and Sisters what I am saying is let us not forget our past, which led us to our present and can definitely be the backbone to our future. We were good enough, smart enough, creative enough, and bold enough then, so Lets all give Obama the chance to show that we are still these things and more. We all are as strong as our weakest link, so don't be that weak link that denies our people that chance to show we still can OVERCOME & BE THE FIRST
It's just my opinion, but I'm not wrong!!